Youth Connect

Educational Achievement Gap explored

2012-02-09T12:01:00.000-08:00

Click here for a shortened clip of the Kettering Foundation's film on the educational achievement gap in the United States, and how communities are stepping up to make a positive difference. What are we doing right in Sewickley? What more do we need to do, or what can we do better?

An announcement from Union Aid Society

2012-02-07T09:52:00.001-08:00

UNION AID SOCIETY

SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATIONS NOW AVAILABLE

The Union Aid Society will award a $4,000 need based college scholarship to a high school senior who resides within the Quaker Valley School District area.

The scholarship is for the first year of college, $2,000 per semester. Consideration will be given to students with a minimum of a 3.0 GPA. Application materials include financial information, references, high school transcript and an essay; interviews will be scheduled with finalists. The application deadline is April 10, 2012.

For more information contact the Union Aid Society at 412-741-9240 or info@unionaidsociety.org.

From our colleagues at Sewickley Academy

2012-02-06T06:27:00.000-08:00

20 SEXTING ACRONYMS EVERY PARENT NEEDS TO KNOW
Research shows that sexting is on the rise among teens and tweens. Could your kids be doing it right under your nose without you even knowing?
By Allison Takeda, Senior Editor

MONDAY, Dec. 5, 2011 — Some 10 percent of tweens and teens have exchanged sexually suggestive photos via phone, the Internet, or other electronic media, according to a new study just published in the journal Pediatrics. But even more — up to 39 percent, according to a survey by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy — have sent or received sexually suggestive messages, such as texts, e-mails, or IMs.

Sexting, the transmission of such messages and images, primarily between cell phones, is an increasing concern among parents — and though the study released today indicates it’s not as widespread a problem as we’d previously feared, such behavior can have serious consequences, not just for your child’s emotional well-being and privacy, but from a legal standpoint as well. If you have teens, you’re likely already on the lookout for red flags. But do you know what those flags are? Many sexually explicit messages aren’t actually that explicit — to parents, anyway. A lot of sexting is done in code, using acronyms and decoy words.

Here are just a few of the many (many!) examples of shorthand that teens and tweens use to sext:

53X = sex
8 = oral sex
Banana = penis
CD9 = code 9, parents are around
P911 = parent alert
CU46 = see you for sex
GNOC = get naked on cam
GYPO = get your pants off
IMEZYRU = I'm easy, are you?
IPN = I'm posting naked
ITS = intense text sex
IWSN = I want sex now
J/O = jerking off
Kitty = vagina
LH6 = let's have sex
LHU = let's hook up
NFS = need for sex
PRON = porn
TDTM = talk dirty to me
RUH = are you horny?

If you spot any of these messages on your child’s phone, don’t just get angry and take away his or her text privileges. Talk with your teen about why and with whom they’re exchanging such messages, and discuss the potential consequences of their actions. Then make a plan to check in with your child about his or her text habits in the future. You may also want to consider monitoring cell phone and computer use for further inappropriate behavior, and contacting the parents of the other child involved.

Read on about the dangers of sexting from Everyday Health’s medical director, Mallika Marshall, MD.

Summer opportunities for kids, from our colleagues in Coraopolis!

2012-02-01T09:32:00.000-08:00

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A note from Hank Ford, Sewickley Y's Youth Director

2012-01-31T07:09:00.000-08:00

I know this may be short notice, but if at all possible, I’d like to get the word out to those in the Cornell district about our upcoming bowling event. On Saturday, February 4th, I’ll be driving a group of 6th-8th graders from the Y to Paradise Island Bowl. We will depart the Y at 12:30pm and return around 3:30pm. The price of $12.00 (for both Y members and non-members alike) includes: 2 hours of bowling (1:00pm-3:00pm), shoe rental, two slices of pizza, and one soft drink. On our shuttle bus, we have room for myself, one other adult chaperone, and 13 fun-loving kids. Of course, if interest spikes enough in the next several days, we may be able to use a school bus from QV to accommodate a greater number of kids. To this e-mail, I have attached a flyer for the event.

Two recent articles highlight ramifications of teen drug and alcohol usage

2012-01-24T06:33:00.000-08:00

Two recent Post-Gazette articles once again focused the spotlight on the tragic ramifications of drug and alcohol usage among teens. The first, found at http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/12022/1205272-455.stm, follows a young woman in her battle against heroin. The second, included below in its entirety, illustrates what can go wrong when teens and alchohol mix.

Woman who gave teens alcohol before deadly crash pleads guilty
Monday, January 23, 2012
By Torsten Ove,
Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

A Westmoreland County woman this morning pleaded guilty to supplying the alcohol at her teenage son's graduation party before a crash that killed three of the partygoers about a mile from the house.

Susan Sanders-Watt, 60, of Salem, pleaded to corruption of minors, reckless endangerment and 17 citations of serving alcohol to minors.

She admitted that she furnished a half-keg of beer for 16 teens who attended her 17-year-old son's party on June 26. Three teens -- driver Michael Simpson and two passengers, Jordon Cobb and Carly Kudray -- later died in a crash. A fourth passenger, Chad Vandergrift, was thrown from the car but survived.

All four were graduates of Greensburg-Salem High School.

No sentencing date was set.

Torsten Ove: tove@post-gazette.com or
412-263-1510.
Read more: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/12023/1205485-100.stm?cmpid=IPHONEAPP#ixzz1kO1GrpCz

Sewickley Police Department sponsors drug awareness event

2012-01-17T06:12:00.000-08:00

Special Agent from Attorney General’s office to Speak on Drug Awareness and Teens

Youth Connect is pleased to support the Sewickley Police Department’s upcoming presentation on drug awareness, slated for Tuesday, Feb 28th at 6 pm. Richard Shaheen, Senior Supervisory Special Agent from the Pennsylvania Office of the Attorney General’s Bureau of Investigative Services, will lead the event, which will be held at Osborne Elementary School, 1414 Beaver Street.

According to Shaheen, the evening is appropriate for students in 7th grade through high school, as well as their parents and other interested community members. The event, which is being sponsored by the Sewickley Police Department, will last 45 min to 1 hour. Special Agent Shaheen has presented at Quaker Valley School District functions in the past. Youth Connect joins with the Sewickley Police Department in welcoming Agent Shaheen back to the community, to speak on this important topic.

This program is open to all community members. For more information on Youth Connect and the upcoming presentation, email youthconnect@hotmail.com.

SPL to offer Babysitting 101 class

2012-01-13T08:17:00.000-08:00

Babysitting 101

Saturday, February 25, 2012 from 9am-3pm
In the Sewickley Public Library Community Room

Babysitting 101 (facilitated by Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh of UPMC) helps boys and girls ages 11 and up gain the knowledge and skills needed to become responsible babysitters. Students learn about safety for themselves and the children in their care. First aid basics, choking rescue techniques, child development, and routine daily care are covered.Students are asked to bring a bag lunch to the class. The library will provide drinks and snacks.The cost of this class is $25 per person. Interested students must register in person at the library's reference desk. Payment is due upon sign up. Cash and checks are accepted. Checks should be made payable to Sewickley Public Library. Contact the library at 412-741-6920 with any questions.

If this date doesn’t work for you, check the Children’s Hospital’s Babysitting 101 webpage for additional dates.

Some upcoming events--mark your calendars!

2012-01-12T05:52:00.000-08:00

At the recent Youth Connect meeting, the following events were announced. Stay tuned for additional details, but in the meantime, mark your calendars so you don't miss the important information that will be shared.

Sewickley Academy will be hosting its "Superbowl for
Summerbridge" on Friday, Feb 3rd. $10 to fill your bowl or $25
to keep it. There will be salad, cornbread and chili and the proceeds benefit
the Summerbridge program. More details on the horizon!

Laughlin's 4th annual St. Valentine's Day Family Ball is Saturday, Feb. 4th
from 5 to 8 pm at the Edgeworth Club. The event is a family-friendly
dinner dance with activities for children under 12. Ticket prices are
$90/adult, or $175 for a family ticket (limit 2 adults); kids under 12 are
free! Call 412.741.4087 for details or to register.

Tuesday, Feb 28th: Officer Mazza from the Sewickley Police is coordinating
a drug and alcohol awareness event with the Attorney General's office. The
presentation will be held at Osborne Elementary. The time has not been
confirmed, but it will occur in the evening. More details will be shared
as they become available.

from Drugfree.org, dangers of hookah smoking

2012-01-06T13:20:00.000-08:00

Hookahs Can Cause Carbon MonoxidePoisoning, Health Officials Say

Hookahs, which many people perceive as a less dangerous way of using tobacco than smoking
cigarettes, can cause carbon monoxide poisoning, health experts say.
The health effects of hookahs, or water pipes, have not been studied as rigorously as cigarettes, but
the risks are becoming clearer as the pipes grow in popularity in the United States, Thomas
Eissenberg of Virginia Commonwealth University, who has studied hookahs extensively, told The
Courier-Journal.

Hookah bars feature water pipes that are used to smoke a blend of tobacco, molasses and fruit
called shisha. Researchers say that contrary to the belief of many hookah smokers, the water in the
pipe does not filter all the harmful chemicals in tobacco smoke. The World Health Organization
(WHO) noted in a report that the smoke inhaled in a typical one-hour hookah session can equal
100 cigarettes or more. The WHO report also stated that even after it has been passed through
water, the tobacco smoke in a hookah pipe contains high levels of cancer-causing chemicals.
Henry Spiller, Director of the Kentucky Regional Poison Center, told the newspaper that he has
seen hookah users with significant carbon monoxide poisoning. He noted that regular hookah
users may develop long-term health problems from increased carbon monoxide levels, including
neurological damage. In severe cases, carbon monoxide poisoning can lead to a coma or death.

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Roundtable Reality Check: prescription drug abuse among teens

2011-11-09T14:27:00.000-08:00

On Wednesday evening, November 16th, Youth Connect will present Dr. Barbara Swan, local physcian, who will facilitate a discussion entitled "Roundtable Reality Check: Teen Prescription Drug Abuse". The format for the event is a brief overview of what drugs are typically abused, how children are gaining access to them, and what risks are associated with abuse of prescribed medications, followed by a Question and Answer session moderated by Dr. Swan.

NIDA, or The National Institute on Drug Abuse (www.teens.drugabuse.gov), states that, among youth who are 12 to 17 years old, 7.7 percent reported past-year nonmedical use of prescription medications. According to the 2010 Monitoring the Future survey, prescription and over-the-counter drugs are among the most commonly abused drugs by 12th graders, after alcohol, marijuana, and tobacco. Youth who abuse prescription medications are also more likely to report use of other drugs. Dr. Swan will help parents and other concerned attendees understand the nature of prescription drug abuse, especially as it relates to middle and high school students.

The event, which is free and open to the public, will take place at the Sewickley Public Library, 500 Thorn Street, in Sewickley, starting at 7 pm. Youth Connect is a group of concerned adults and students from schools and organizations in the Sewickley area working to provide the information, resources, and support our young people need to avoid risky behaviors and enjoy their teen years.

For more information on Youth Connect and the upcoming presentation on prescription drug abuse, email youthconnect@hotmail.com.

Bully-Proofing for Successful Learning and Living

2011-10-12T12:38:00.001-07:00

What does bullying look like in the schoolhouse? What strategies can you teach your student to prevent bullying behavior in your neighborhood or harassment in high school?

To address these topics, Quaker Valley School District has invited back Jim Bozigar to be the keynote speaker for two anti-bullying presentations for parents and community members on October 26, 2011.

Two sessions, each an hour and a half in length, have been scheduled to accommodate parents’ schedules, 1:00 PM and 7:00 PM. The afternoon session will be presented at the Sewickley YMCA on Blackburn Road, Sewickley. The evening session will take place at Edgeworth Elementary School, 200 Meadow Lane, Sewickley.

Learning about bullying is not just for those parents who suspect their child may be too aggressive on the playground. It is for all adults, especially those who interact with students on a regular basis in their homes, during scouting, or in carpool, for example.

Following Mr. Bozigar’s presentation based on the successful Olweus method, attendees will participate in breakout sessions where school counselors and administrators will conduct interactive discussions for parents focusing on the elementary, middle and high school age students. Quaker Valley discussion leaders will provide input as to what bullying may look like including online bullying, and how it is handled at each building level. Attendees will learn how adults can help young people with this issue. Time will be allotted to address specific questions by attendees.

“Last year, Mr. Bozigar’s presentation was so well received, we are inviting him to return and expanding the program in an effort to make it relevant for parents and community members. This is everyone’s problem and we want as many people ‘armed’ with good information and strategies,” Leah Wells, QVSD school psychologist, explained.

This anti-bullying presentation is just one component in Quaker Valley’s district-wide initiative to address bullying and School-wide Positive Behavior Support. The district understands that students cannot learn if they feel vulnerable or unsafe. A positive culture and safe environment are essential to learning and student achievement.

From our colleagues at Sewickley Academy--

2011-10-12T10:14:00.000-07:00

Hello, everyone! You are all invited to the first Sewickley Series event of the year which takes place next Friday, October 21, at 7 pm in Rea Auditorium.

More to Live For is an inspiring and educational documentary told through the stories of three individuals all affected by bone marrow cancer. Each individual’s story is unique and demonstrates the many sides, options, challenges and hopes when dealing with blood cancer or leukemia. Seun Adebiyi – graduate of Yale Law School and winter Olympic hopeful – is one of the individuals in the film. He will be here to share more of his story and answer questions after the film.

In addition to the film, Sewickley Academy is hosting an open to the public blood and marrow drive on Friday, November 4.

For more information and to register, visit www.sewickley.org/sewickleyseries.

Brain Power

2011-10-12T09:57:00.000-07:00

Parents and representatives from the community, QV, Montessori Children's Community, the Sewickley Y and others participated in Laughlin Children's Center's "Smart but Scattered" workshop on Monday, October 10th. The workshop featured authors Peg Dawson and Dick Guare, whose best-seller explains executive dysfunctions in children, and the ramificiations on school and homelife. Executive functions are those skills that allow us to break down large tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. Or organize our time efficiently. Or help us remember where we left our backpack full of books. Some kids are naturally more adept at these executive functions, while other kids are not. Dawson and Guare gave the audience of almost 100 strategies and tips to help children all along the executive function spectrum, in a variety of settings.

This recent online article from National Geographic also looks at the brain and our kids. Powerful food for thought...
http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2011/10/teenage-brains/dobbs-text/1

School Year starts back up! Check out these activities!

2011-09-08T09:59:00.000-07:00

Opportunities for Teens in the Quaker Valley area:

AFTER-SCHOOL "DROP-IN" PROGRAMS FOR MIDDLE SCHOOL STUDENTS: The popular “White House” teen center at the Presbyterian Church, Sewickley will continue to be open from 3 to 5 PM Tuesdays and Thursdays. New this year, the YMCA will also provide an after-school program for middle school students and teens, Mondays and Wednesdays from 3 to 5 PM, located in the Community Activity Center near the Y’s upper parking lot. A YMCA membership is not required. QVSD provides transportation to both programs, which include snacks and adult supervision. For information, contact Rev. Scott Hoffman, 412. 741-4550, for the “White House” program and Karen Hallisey, 412.741.9622, for the YMCA Teen Center program.

FLOYD FAULKNER, COMMUNITY YOUTH WORKER FOR THE QUAKER VALLEY AREA, continues his work connecting students to the resources and afterschool programs in our community. During the past two years “Mr. Floyd” has been highly effective in developing relationships with students , parents and community resources that have been helpful to students and parents alike. The Community Youth Worker position is coordinated through Youth Connect, administered by Quaker Valley School District, housed at Laughlin Children’s Center, funded by a community collaborative of organizations, and advised by a committee consisting of representatives from the community. Students and parents may contact him at faulknerf@qvsd.org or call Laughlin Children’s Center at 412.741.4087.

Click on the image below for a printable flyer detailing these youth-oriented opportunities!

Meeting TOMORROW evening!!

2011-05-31T07:54:00.000-07:00

While we had great attendance at our “My Child Would Never…” drinking and drugs event in April, several people expressed a desire for an evening event, since daytime conflicts prevent them from being able to attend. Youth Connect is therefore offering a follow-up discussion the evening of Wednesday, June 1, 7:00 pm at the Sewickley YMCA Community Activities Center. (The building at the paddle courts, upper side of the Y parking lot, on the edge of War Memorial Park.)

If you missed the event, please consider joining in this always-needed discussion! And if you did attend, and want to talk some more, you’re welcome to join in again!

The Y and Sweetwater partner to teach drawing skills!

2011-04-11T09:08:00.000-07:00

Click the poster below for a full-sized version. Ka-POW!

Presentation by local experts on drinking and drug use

2011-03-28T06:40:00.000-07:00

On Wednesday, April 13, Youth Connect will host a presentation by local experts that continues the group’s on-going conversation about the dangers, ramifications, and consequences of underage drinking. Entitled My Child Would NEVER… A Presentation for Parents on the Drinking and Drug Party Scene, the event will feature Dr. Thomas Pangburn from Heritage Valley Emergency Services, Judge Robert Ford, Sewickley Chief of Police Jim Ersher, and John English, Edgeworth Chief of Police. These professionals deal with the fallout from teen drinking and drug use on a local level, and can help parents learn how to make a difference in the lives of their children. The event runs from 11 am till 1 pm at the Sewickley Valley Y Community Center, located near the Paddle Tennis courts off Blackburn Road. There is no cost, and the presentation is open to the public. Attendees are encouraged to bring a brown bag lunch; beverages will be provided. Click on the image below for a printable flyer.

Local Teen-Serving Agencies team up for Art's Sake

2011-03-14T06:45:00.000-07:00

Sewickley Valley Y to present on Head Injury

2011-02-25T10:19:00.000-08:00

In light of the growing concern over concussions and other related head injury, our friends at the Y are presenting a Wellness Workshop on the topic, March 10th at 7 pm. Click the poster for more details!

CHILD HEALTH NEWS :-)

2011-02-18T09:12:00.000-08:00

At its monthly membership meeting on February 11, 2011, The Child Health Association of Sewickley was pleased to award a grant for $11,350 to Youth Connect to support the Community Youth Worker project. This funding came from the proceeds of the 2010 Annual Child Health Ball. Janet Kovac, president of Child Health, presented the check to Dr. Joseph Clapper, Superintendent of Quaker Valley School District, Susan Kaminski and Joan Murdoch, Youth Connect Board members, and Floyd Faulkner, the community youth worker. The Sewickley Valley Community Fund will match this donation.

In accepting this award, Joan Murdoch, cited the history of Child Health and praised the organization for its vision in providing support to local children. At its inception, one of the earliest service projects of the organization was to provide free milk for area public school children to combat malnutrition. Mrs. Murdoch said, “Now nearly 90 years later, the Child Health Organization has taken the initiative to fund another valuable program that enhances the basic needs of youth in our community.” She commended Child Health for its major funding role in piloting the Youth Worker position, along with The Presbyterian Church and the Grable Foundation in 2009-10.

With the mission of providing the information, resources, and support needed to give our young people the best chance to enjoy their teen years while avoiding risky behaviors, Floyd Faulkner, was hired as the community youth worker in August 2009. During the presentation, Faulkner thanked Child Health for their support and said, “Since the beginning of Youth Connect, collaborative efforts in the community have helped young people overcome the problems they encounter.” Quaker Valley School District administrators managed the hiring process of the community youth worker and are overseeing the program, allowing Faulkner access to the schools for interaction with the students, parents, and teachers. Dr. Clapper noted that benefits from the program have been seen since Day 1.

Author speaks on teen sexuality

2011-02-17T07:44:00.000-08:00

It’s almost here…the rescheduled “Before They Know It All: Talking to Tweens and Teens about Sexuality”, led by author Alan Carson. The event is scheduled for Wednesday, February 23, 11:00 am – 1:00 pm at the Sewickley Valley YMCA Community Activities Center. This event is free and open to the public, but, if desired, you can also pre-order lunch and/or a book for $10 each.

Please register for the event by calling the YMCA at 412-741-9622 or via the website www.sewickleyymca.org (however, as of 10 am today, the site is experiencing difficulties) . If you have questions, please contact Marianne Cibulas at cibulasm@qvsd.org. Further information is included in the attached flyer.

Hope to see you there!

From our friends at the Y

2011-02-07T09:51:00.000-08:00

Youth Connect partners featured on WQED TV

2011-02-03T10:55:00.000-08:00

Laughlin Children's Center and Quaker Valley School District were recently featured on "Pittsburgh 360," a new local-news program on PBS' WQED TV. Watch it here. Laughlin's clip begins at the 11:37 minute mark, and QV's starts around the 19:50 minute mark.

RESCHEDULED! Author to lead discussion on sexuality

2011-01-04T07:30:00.000-08:00

On Wednesday, 23 February 2011 from 11:00 am - 1:00 pm, Youth Connect will present "Before They Know It All: Talking to Tweens and Teens about Sexuality," a thought-provoking discussion on teen culture and the vital role that parents play in helping their tweens and teens make healthy decisions. The event is free of charge, led by author Alan Carson, and is appropriate for parents of students in grades 4 - 9.

With a reservation by 21 February, a catered lunch by MixStirs Café is available for $10. In addition, a copy of Mr. Carson's book is available for pre-event purchase at the special discounted price of $10, courtesy of Penguin Bookshop (book price after the 21st, including at the event: $17.95). To register for the event (require), or to purchase lunch and/or Mr. Carson's book at the Penguin's discounted price, visit www.sewickleyymca.org or call 412-741-9622.

Mr. Carson's presentation will be held at the Sewickley YMCA's Community Activities Center. If you have questions or for further information, contact Marianne Cibulas at cibulasm@qvsd.org or 412-749-6010.

Local Library adds app!

2010-12-06T06:42:00.000-08:00

For two years the Sewickley Public Library of the Quaker Valley School District has offered Live Homework Help®, an online tutoring service from Tutor.com™ that connects students to expert tutors (at no charge) in math, science, social studies, and English via the Internet. Now students can get help wherever they are with the free Tutor.com To Go app for iPhone & iPod Touch.

Tutor.com To Go allows users to browse SkillsCenter™ resources by subject and topic anytime, whether they are a K-12 student or college student. Excellent career resources and templates exist for job seekers. Users have access to over 9,000 vetted homework, test prep and study resources, including step-by-step videos, study guides, sample tests, and more. Accounts are not required. At this time, Tutor.com To Go does not allow users to connect with tutors.

To learn more about the Tutor.com To Go app visit http://www.tutor.com/togo or search for it in the iTunes store. To connect with one of Tutor.com’s online tutors, go to www.sewickleylibrary.org and click the Tutor.com logo.

Child Health Play details!

2010-11-08T07:01:00.000-08:00

The Child Health Players proudly present

Tying the Knot

a musical comedy about love and marriage with some very Sewickley twists.

Tickets for performances on Thursday, November 18 and Friday, November 19 go on sale to the general public on Friday, November 5 at the Edgeworth Club. Reserved seat tickets are $15 for adults; $10 for children 12 and under.

The performance begins at 7:30 pm at the Edgeworth Club. Tickets may be purchased at the Edgeworth Club Front Desk daily from 8:00 am to 9:00 pm. Cash or check only; no Club charges or credit card sales.

The play will also be performed at the Child Health Ball on Saturday, November 20. A portion of the proceeds of the Play and Ball will benefit Youth Connect and help fund our community youth worker.

Lots of great events in the very near future....

2010-11-02T06:38:00.001-07:00

Tuesday, November 2: Sewickley Academy welcomes back psychologist, consultant, and best-selling author Michael Thompson. In light of the issues raised by the recent film screening of "Race To Nowhere", Dr. Thompson will continue the conversation about “American’s Achievement Culture” by drawing from his book The Pressured Child: Helping Your Child Find Success in School and Life. He will address America’s performance-driven obsession with the accomplishments of its kids and how to best support our children. The event will be held in the Senior School Commons, Sewickley Academy. There will be a light reception and book signing at 6:00 pm, and the presentation will begin at 6:30 pm. This event is free and open to the public.

Thursday, November 4: If you missed Race to Nowhere, or want to view it again: On Thursday, Nov. 4, at 7 p.m., Shady Side Academy will host a free screening of the documentary. The screening is free and open to the public and will be held in the Richard E. Rauh Theater of the Hillman Center for Performing Arts on the SSA Senior School campus, 423 Fox Chapel Road, Fox Chapel. The film is 85 minutes long, and guests are invited to stay after the screening for a reception and discussion.

Tuesday, November 9: A follow-up “call to action” meeting will be held to discuss Race to Nowhere, and identify what we might do to make a difference in our community. The meeting will be held at Montessori Children’s Community, 474 Chadwick Street, 7 – 8:30 pm. This discussion is a open to the community. Please join us!

Please forward this message to anyone who might be interested!

SVCF joins supporters of Youth Connect and Youth Worker!

2010-11-02T06:37:00.001-07:00

Youth Connect is pleased to announce that the Sewickley Valley Community Fund (SVCF) has pledged a two-year, $5000/year matching grant in support of the Community Youth Worker program. For every two dollars that Youth Connect is able to raise, SVCF will contribute one dollar.

The Community Youth Worker position was piloted over the past year, with great success. Funding is now being assembled to cover the next three years. Floyd Faulkner, hired in August 2009, has had significant impact in this position, from taking yoga classes with middle schoolers to counseling students caught in the judicial system. Youth Connect has already received funding commitments from a number of community foundations and individuals who have first-hand experience with the value of having a Community Youth Worker.

As Marnie Haines, a director of SVCF said, “ Youth Connect, acting within the eleven municipalities, and with the backing of the Quaker Valley School District and other local organizations, is an organization and a program that SVCF believes deserves our support.”

One of the key drivers for this position was the realization that while this community is rich in resources, many of the youth cannot easily access them. The Youth Worker position was designed with the plan to better connect our youth to these resources. The position is administered by Quaker Valley School District, housed at Laughlin Center, and advised by a committee consisting of representatives from the community. This spirit of collaboration is consistent with the values of Sewickley Valley Community Fund.

Individuals interested in making a donation or pledge of support to continue the work of Mr. Faulkner are encouraged to contact Susan Kaminski at 412-741-1430, or youthconnect@hotmail.com. Each gift made in the next two years will help Youth Connect access the matching grant of the Sewickley Valley Community Fund.

Please plan to attend, and pass the word!

2010-10-13T07:53:00.000-07:00

Two great community educational events, one on bullying and the other on our “achievement culture”, are coming up in the next few weeks.

October 21: In recognition of National Bullying Prevention Month, Youth Connect, in conjunction with the Quaker Valley School District and Sewickley Academy, will be hosting a Parent Education presentation entitled: BULLYING: What We See and What We Do. This informational session will be held on October 21, 2010 from 7:00-9:00pm in the Quaker Valley High School Auditorium. A formal presentation will be provided by elementary level and secondary level guidance counselors and administrators followed by more informal discussion. Topics to be covered will include perception data gathered from teachers and students regarding bullying, relational aggression, exclusion, and proactive approaches to a respectful school environment, and how parents can set positive examples of social inclusion, among others. No RSVP is required.

November 2: Sewickley Academy welcomes back psychologist, consultant, and best-selling author Michael Thompson. Dr. Thompson will present on the topic of “Freeing Our Kids from Performance Overdrive” on Tuesday, November 2, in the Senior School Commons. There will be a light reception and book signing at 6:00 pm, and the presentation will begin at 6:30 pm. This event is free and open to the public.

In light of the recent film screening at the Edgeworth Club – Race To Nowhere – an event sponsored by the Montessori Children’s Community, Dr. Thompson will continue the conversation about “American’s Achievement Culture” by drawing from his book The Pressured Child: Helping Your Child Find Success in School and Life. He will address America’s performance-driven obsession with the accomplishments of its kid and how to best support our children. Parents, grandparents, educators, and anyone who cares about children will appreciate Thompson’s strategies to reduce the pressures of our fast-paced society.

Another event that might be of interest to you and your family:

October 25, 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm at QVHS cafeteria: Empty Bowls dinner to benefit local food charities. Go to http://www.qvsd.org/pagecalpop.cfm?p=2602&verbose=31570 for more information.

ADHD WORKSHOP REGISTRATION FULL!

2010-09-29T06:52:00.000-07:00

Due to overwhelming demand, registration for the October 11 parent workshop on ADHD at Laughlin Children's Center is now closed. Any parents who have not registered but are interested in learning more about ADHD and other attention issues should contact the Center and your name will be added to a mailing list for handouts, as well as an invitation to the next workshop on ADHD to be offered in the spring.

Thank you to those who registered--we'll see you on Monday, 11 October.

A few more announcements...

2010-09-28T13:23:00.001-07:00

(1) There will be a Sewickley Skate Park meeting for the community, to be held at the Sewickley Public Library on Tuesday, September 28, 6:00 pm. This is an open meeting for all kids and adults interested in making the park a reality. Please come and support this great effort!

(2) Alan Carson, parent educator and retired Quaker Valley Guidance counselor is offering his 10th annual "Creating a Connected Atmosphere at Home" parenting course to parents. While primarily for elementary and middle school parents, parents of older children are welcome also! This fall the five-week course will be offered in the mornings at the Sewickley United Methodist Church, from 9:15 to 11:00 am beginning on October 12th. The fee for the course, one or both parents, is $35. For more information or to register, contact Alan at 412-680-3843 or through e-mail at parentslead@mac.com

Two Important Parent Workshops in October!

2010-09-23T13:34:00.000-07:00

Youth Connect is partnering with Laughlin Children's Center, Sewickley Academy, and Quaker Valley School District on two parent workshops in October.
On Monday, 11 October, beginning at 6:30, Dr. Donna Bednarek and Dr. Lenore Melmeyer, two of Laughlin's licensed psychologists, will present PAY ATTENTION: A Parent Overview of ADHD and Other Attention Issues. The presentation will take place at the Center, 424 Frederick Avenue, Sewickley. It is free and open to the public, but seating is limited. Please call 412.741.4087 or email k.miller@laughlincenter.org to reserve a seat. THIS WORKSHOP IS NOW FULL; NO FURTHER REGISTRATIONS ARE BEING ACCEPTED, BUT INTERESTED PARENTS SHOULD CONTACT LAUGHLIN CHILDREN'S CENTER TO RECEIVE A COPY OF THE HANDOUTS AND SIGN UP FOR NOTIFICATION OF THE SPRING ADHD WORKSHOP.

In recognition of National Bullying Prevention Month, Youth Connect, in conjunction with the QVSD and SA will be hosting a Parent Education presentation entitled: BULLYING: What We See and What We Do. This informational session will be held on October 21, 2010 from 7:00-9:00pm in the Quaker Valley High School Auditorium. A formal presentation will be provided by elementary level and secondary level guidance counselors and administrators followed by more informal discussion. Topics to be covered will include perception data gathered from teachers and students regarding bullying, relational aggression, exclusion, and proactive approaches to a respectful school environment, and how parents can set positive examples of social inclusion, among others. No RSVP is required.

Montessori Children's Community to host screening of important documentary

2010-09-10T09:58:00.000-07:00

On THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 30TH, Montessori Children's Community will present

RACE TO NOWHERE

a film about the "dark side of America's Achievement Culture" told through the lens of school children and how the pressure to perform is impacting their lives, their relationships, and even their health.

The promotional materials for the documentary include the following: A concerned mother turned filmmaker aims her camera at the high-stakes, high-pressure culture that has invaded our schools and our children's lives. Race to Nowhere points to the silent epidemic in our schools: cheating has become commonplace; students are disengaged; stress-related illness and depression are rampant; and many young people arrive at college and the workplace unprepared and uninspired. Race to Nowhere is a call to action for families, educators, and policy makers to challenge current assumptions on how to best prepare the youth of America to become healthy, bright, contributing and leading citizens.

The screening takes place at 7 pm, at the Edgeworth Club, 511 East Drive, Sewickley. Tickets are $10 in advance; $15 at the door.

To order tickets, click www.brownpapertickets.com/event/124910

For more information about the movie, go to www.racetonowhere.com

ER Visits for Synthetic Marijuana on the Rise

2010-08-30T13:14:00.000-07:00

Originally reported at www.jointogether.org on 27 August 2010:

An herb-and-chemical compound sold legally in the U.S. as incense is sending many of those who smoke it to the hospital, Reuters reported July 29.

The compound, known as K2, interacts with brain receptors in a way that is said to be similar to marijuana. Unlike marijuana, not much is known about the chemical makeup of the compound.

Officials said more and more people who smoke the "synthetic marijuana" have reported to emergency rooms and poison-control centers with symptoms ranging from anxiety, hypertension, and vomiting to severe paranoia and hallucinations.
U.S. poison-control centers received 13 calls related to K2 a year ago, while 766 cases have been reported in the first half of 2010, said Anthony Scalzo, medical director for the Missouri Poison Center.

The concern, according to Scalzo, is that the surge "may represent the tip of an iceberg."

To read viewer comments, log on to www.jointogether.org.

90 seconds that can save your life...

2010-08-24T12:42:00.000-07:00

Watch this with your teen-agers. In fact, watch it with anyone you know who drives or rides in cars.

From our friends at the Sewickley Public Library!

2010-08-24T06:40:00.000-07:00

Teen Move Up Days – Saturday, Sept. 11 from 1-2:30pm or Thursday, Sept. 16 from 6-7:30pm

For: Teens entering grades 6 and 7. YOU are invited to an exclusive Teen Room event.

What/Why: We want you to feel comfortable and welcome as you transition from the Children’s Dept to the Teen Room! Meet me (Kelly, the Teen Librarian) in the Teen Room for an activity; raffle prizes; and a tour of the Teen Room. During the tour I’ll answer any questions you may have about the Teen Dept. Then we’ll eat pizza together! (At 2pm or 7pm, depending on which session you come to, parents may join us and ask any questions they have about the Teen Dept.)

Registration is required for this program. Sign up for the Saturday, September 11, sessionor the Thursday, September 16, session.

Off and Running!

2010-08-20T07:37:00.001-07:00

It's hard to believe summer is winding down, but there was no getting around the fact at this week's Youth Connect meeting. Programs are gearing up (or already up and running!), school is about to start, and the Pirates are 40 and 81... Yes, summer is winding down.

Here are just a few of the exciting events Youth Connect is involved with in the coming months--

26 August @ the Edgeworth Club: the Moms For Kids group will screen the video HAZE as part of a continuing community discussion about the hazards of underage drinking

11 September @ Harvest Festival: local high school students will offer up fun activities while distributing info about Youth Connect

Late September: Montessori Children's Community will host a community screening of "Race to Nowhere", a film about the pressures today's students face; check out http://www.montessorichildrenscommunity.org/ for details

Mid-October @ Laughlin Children's Center: Dr. Donna Bednarek and Dr. Lenore Melmeyer, two of LCC's psychologists, will host a parent presentation on ADHD. Look for details at http://www.laughlincenter.org/, http://www.laughlincenter.blogspot.com/, or become a fan of Laughlin's facebook page

Other topics and events include: the 2nd annual "Feed the Love" community family dinner; the new face of bullying; prescription drug abuse; Texting & Driving: a lethal combination; and a round-up of the year's forums on underage drinking in April, for Alcohol Awareness Month.

Expert in Youth and Technology Returns to Speak

2010-08-11T09:07:00.000-07:00

From our friends at the QV district office:

Quaker Valley School District welcomes back Cole W. Camplese to present the latest information on youth and technology to parents the community. Camplese will present “Disruptive Technologies” on Tuesday, August 17 at 7:00 PM in the high school auditorium. The public is encouraged to attend.

Cole W. Camplese is the Director of Education and Technology Services at The Pennsylvania State University. As Director, it is his responsibility to oversee university-wide initiatives with a focus on impacting teaching and learning with technology. His primary area of focus is the integration of technologies into learning spaces. Mr. Camplese teaches courses in the College of Education with a focus on the integration and implementation of disruptive technologies into teaching and learning. He is an Apple Distinguished Educator, selected for his innovative uses of technology in and out of the classroom. As an established consultant, Mr. Camplese helps organizations integrate technologies into their business practices, education and training programs, and their internal and external communication processes. He is a published author and has presented both theoretical and practical concepts at regional and national conferences.

A Message from Barbara Thaw, Herald Citizen of the Year

2010-05-20T09:03:00.000-07:00

As we gear up for the biggest Quaker Valley Relay for Life EVER, the American Cancer Society's signature event, I thought to email out a schedule of events so everyone can see all of the excitement in store. If you have already received it, pass this copy along to a friend.

May 22nd (noon kick off) to May 23 (8:00 a.m. closing ceremony)
Quaker Valley High School Track

From several Live Bands to Zumba lessons ......... from Life Flight to the Survivor's Victory Lap ....... From the QV Marching Band to FIREWORKS ... From line dancing to the Survivor's Victory Lap .... From a dove release to the inspirational Luminaria Ceremony .....

We will have crafts and games and food and raffles. Please consider attending this most important event, rain or shine!! Sadly, we are all too aware that cancer knows no season, no age, no social status. Let's support our community and this most worthy cause.

Additional information - to donate - to join a team (it's not too late), go to QVRelay.org or send me an email. Hope to see you and yours on the track.

Barbara
RELAY FOR LIFE OF QUAKER VALLEY 2010- HOEDOWN FOR HOPE
SCHEDULE OF MAJOR EVENTS
SATURDAY, MAY 22ND
9:00 A.M. TRACK OPEN FOR TENT SET-UP
12:00 NOON OPENING AND WELCOME
FEATURING: QVHS Marching Band
Performance by: John Tucci
12:15 P.M. PARADE OF TEAMS AND BANNER JUDGING
12:30 P.M. CRAFTS BEGIN & HULA HOOP CONTEST
12:45 P.M. THREE-LEGGED RACE / CAMP SITE JUDGING
1:00 P.M. THE ROX BAND
Pittsburgh’s Rox Performance Academy
2:00 P.M. KENTUCKY DERBY (Relay Race)
2:15 P.M. LIFE FLIGHT HELICOPTER LANDING & DEMO
Presented By: Allegheny General Hospital
2:30 P.M. WALDO- THE ONE MAN BAND
Website: http://www.waldoyoung.com/
3:00 P.M. HORSE/PONY RIDES
3:30 P.M. LINE DANCING LESSONS & ZUMBA LESSONS
5:00 P.M. SURVIVOR LAP, DOVE RELEASE AND RECEPTION
Sponsored By: National Aviary
5:30 P.M. BED SHEET BALLOON TOSS COMPETITION
6:00 P.M. CIRCUMFRENCE BAND (SCOTT & JEFF)
Website: www.MySpace.com/4CatMusic
7:00 P.M. FIGHT BACK CEREMONY
7:30 P.M. ANOTHER WHISPER
Featuring: Amy Lee
8:00 P.M. TUG OF WAR
8:15 P.M. SLEEPING BAG RACE
8:30 P.M. TEAM CAPTAIN APPRECIATION LAP
8:45 P.M. LUMINARY CEREMONY
9:15 P.M. THE STICKERS
Presented by: Froggy Radio (104.3FM)
10:45 P.M. FIREWORKS BY PYROTECNICO
Presented By: Littell Steel Co. / Ace Tire Parts & Parts
11:00 P.M. FROZEN T-SHIRT CONTEST
11:15 P.M. ONE LANE BRIDGE
http://www.myspace.com/onelanebridge79
11:30 P.M. HORSHOE TOSS
SUNDAY, MAY 23rd
1:00 A.M. RELAY IDOL (KARAOKE) $5 ENTRY FEE / PERSON
“Do you have what it takes to be the Relay Idol?”
1:00 A.M. POKER LAPS
1:30 A.M. RED LIGHT / GREEN LIGHT LAP
2:00 A.M. PIZZA PARTY & LINE DANCE PARTY
2:30 A.M. FUNKY SHOE LAP
3:00 A.M. RELAY SPIRIT LAP
3:30 A.M. FUNKY HAT LAP
4:00 A.M. FIND A FRIEND LAP
4:30 A.M. SUNGLASSES AT NIGHT LAP
6:00 A.M. MORNING STRETCH
Sponsored by: Curves
6:30 A.M. SUNRISE SERVICE (TRIUMPH BAPTIST CHURCH)
7:45 A.M. FINAL LAP
8:00 A.M. CLOSING CEREMONY
*SCHEDULE OF EVENTS, TIMES AND ACTS SUBJECT TO CHANGE WITHOUT NOTICE. EVENT IS RAIN OR SHINE.

Website Looks to Start Conversations about Underage Drinking

2010-05-11T07:54:00.000-07:00

The US Department of Health and Human Services includes the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, or SAMHSA. One of SAMHSA's objectives is to educate the public about the dangers of underage drinking.

To help parents start a dialog with their children, the administration has developed an on-line game designed to set the stage through a fun and interactive experience. You can read more about the on-line game in their January-February newsletter here or check out SAMHSA's other efforts around underage drinking by logging onto http://www.toosmarttostart.samhsa.gov/.

Underage Drinking: The Discussion Continues

2010-04-07T08:26:00.000-07:00

On Thursday, April 15th, Youth Connect will host a moderated discussion that continues the group’s on-going conversation about the dangers, ramifications, and consequences of underage drinking.

The discussion, which is being held at Edgeworth Elementary, will center around a series of questions that have emerged at previous roundtable presentations dealing with the topic, including:

What can I do as a parent to keep my kids from drinking?

How do I say “no” when all the other kids are drinking?

Even though my kids have graduated, what can I do to support other teens in the area?

As a student, what should I do when my best friend passes out from binge drinking?

How can I keep track of my kids on weekends?

What else is there to do if students don’t find a place to party?

How do I tell other parents that it’s wrong to allow students to drink alcohol at their house?

This event begins at 7 pm on April 15th, and is free and open to all. Edgeworth Elementary School is located at 200 Meadow Lane. For more information on this important upcoming event, or to find out more about Youth Connect, email youthconnect@hotmail.com.

Boundary Setting during Adolescence: Why it Matters

2010-03-11T13:58:00.000-08:00

Adolescence can be a turbulent time for both teens and parents but with the right mindset and parenting tools it can also be an exciting time of new beginnings.

Please join Youth Connect on Wednesday, March 17th 2010 for an informal presentation and discussion about maintaining an appropriate balance between setting limits and encouraging your child's independence during the teen years, led by Quaker Valley Middle School Assistant Principal, Caroline Johns.

Mrs. Johns’ presentation, Boundary Setting During Adolescence: Why It Matters, will take place at the Sewickley Public Library, Thorn Street at Broad, beginning at 1 pm; the event is free and open to the public.

Some Useful Links

2010-03-04T07:42:00.000-08:00

Having resources to turn to for insight is always a good thing; here are two that we think offer information worth sharing. Let us know if you have other sites you'd like to share with our readers! Email us!

http://www.drugfree.org/

http://timetoact.drugfree.org/

2010-02-17T11:26:00.000-08:00

Click on the image to read more about this month's Teen Reads for Adults' book selection!

Laughlin to offer help for teens with anxiety

2010-01-25T08:54:00.000-08:00

As a follow-up to the teen stress event, Laughlin Children's Center announced that it would be offering a series of small group sessions for girls aged 13-16 who who show signs of anxiety, are socially isolated, or get so emotional at times that they shut down, can’t think clearly, or misbehave impulsively. The goal of the group, led by one of Laughlin’s licensed psychologists, Dr. Lenore Melmeyer, is to provide the participating teens with techniques to calm emotions, develop new perspectives on themselves and others, and improve their communication skills.

The group will run for eight sessions, and will meet at the center, which is located at 424 Frederick Street in Sewickley. Each weekly session will be 90 minutes. Additional sessions will be available as needed. The teen participants can expect to experience the group as a time of sharing and support, as well as a chance to learn better ways of functioning. Some of the topics that will be worked on include mindfulness, interpersonal skills, problems solving, and techniques for overcoming distress.

Before entering the group, each participating teen and her parents will meet privately with Dr. Melmeyer, a therapist specializing in adolescents, for an opportunity to discuss the details of the group and for an assessment; families will have a chance to ask questions about the group at this initial intake meeting. Handouts will be provided to parents each week, reviewing what topics were covered in the group session.

The group will meet on Wednesdays from 7 to 8:30 pm, starting on 3 March and running for eight weeks. All initial meetings with families must be completed before the start of the group, and the group size is limited to no more than 10 girls, aged 13 through 16. Due to expected high demand, interested families are urged to contact the Center at 412.741.4087 or l.melmeyer@laughlincenter.org as soon as possible to schedule the initial intake.

The cost for the eight sessions is covered by most major insurance plans. For interested families without insurance coverage, details about payment can be discussed when the appointment for their intake is made. Financial aid is available for those self-paying families who qualify.

Laughlin Children’s Center has been providing educational supports to children and families from Western Pennsylvania for over 50 years. The staff of licensed and certified clinicians help children discover learning success through a variety of services, such as individual and small group instruction, speech therapy, counseling, and early childhood services, including The Village Preschool. For details on the center’s programs, log onto www.laughlicenter.org or call 412.741.4087.

Teen Stress Event a success!

2010-01-25T08:52:00.000-08:00

The teen years are filled with stressors: Not enough time in the day for school, homework, sports, and extracurriculars; social pressures; college decisions; relationships…the list goes on and on. On Thursday night, 21 January, teens and adults met to discuss this topic.

Eleven teens from QV Voice added to their stressful lives by spending time with us to share their thoughts about stress and how adults can help them. The meeting was kicked off by Amy Keller, counselor at Quaker Valley High School, with a brief overview of brain development for parents, focusing on how different the teenage brain is from the fully-developed adult brain. With this perspective, parents are better able to understand and help their teens navigate through their stresses.

The majority of the evening was then spent hearing from teens. They shared their thoughts about what stresses them, and descriptions of how parents succeed (or sometimes fail) at helping. The most valuable message that came through again and again to parents is that it is very important that they make every effort to listen to and hear their teens – and NOT to try to fix everything for them. As many of the students pointed out, they are learning how to navigate the stresses of their lives, and a sympathetic, rather than a judgemental, ear, helps them greatly.

New Reading Group!

2010-01-22T08:59:00.000-08:00

Youth Connect and The Penguin Bookshop partner to present a new book club! Teen Reads for Adults will meet at 9:30AM Tuesday, February 16th at Penguin Bookshop, 420 Beaver Street in Sewickley.

Teen Reads for Adults is a book club for adults and parents where Young Adult books will be discussed. The book selected for discussion will be a current book written for teens and will explore serious issues related to modern teen life. The purpose of this book club is to provide an opportunity for adults to discuss a teen book with other adults, including school counselors and a teen librarian.

The first book we will be discussing is Wintergirls by Laurie Halse Anderson:

Eighteen-year-old Lia comes to terms
with her best friend's death from anorexia
as she struggles with the same disorder.

Skaters, Unite!

2010-01-21T10:03:00.000-08:00

From our friends at the Teens @ Sewickley Library blog:

Local residents Ty and Nancy Musser have been working with the Sewickley Borough Council to plan a Sewickley Skatepark. They have gotten a lot done in a short amount of time and have already found land that could be used for the skatepark.

There will be a meeting between Ty and all interested Sewickley skaters on Monday, January 25 at 6pm in the Sewickley Public Library Community Room.

It is important that as many people as possible show up for this event, so the community will recognize the need for a skatepark. Please, please tell your friends and bring them along to the meeting. Snacks will be provided, as they are at all Teen Events! Post any questions as comments or get in touch with me, Kelly, at rottmundk@einetwork.net.

21 January 2010--Teen Stress Forum!

2010-01-12T13:36:00.000-08:00

Youth Connect will present an evening workshop for parents about teen stress on Thursday, 21 January 2010 at Edgeworth Elementary, 200 Meadow Lane, Sewickley. Parents can join a discussion about the myriad stressors that today's teens deal with. The event offers an opportunity to learn first-hand about what stresses teens out, how they handle it, and what the adults in their life can do to help.

Over a dozen local high school students will share their concerns and coping skills as part of the moderated panel discussion, which will be preceded by a short presentation on stress from Amy Keller, one of Quaker Valley School District’s Guidance Counselors. The event, which is free and open to the public, begins at 7 pm. For more details, email youthconnect@hotmail.com.

STEVE FORBES IN SEWICKLEY!

2010-01-12T13:02:00.000-08:00

Steve Forbes Book Signing on Wednesday, January 13th 3:00 PM at The Penguin Bookshop

How Capitalism Will Save Us: Why Free People and Free Markets Are the Best Answer in Today's Economy

Penguin Bookshop
420 Beaver Street
Sewickley, PA 15143

For questions or to reserve copies of the book call 412-741-3838 or e-mail booklovers@penguinbookshop.com.

LIVING WITH DIVORCE: Strategies for Survival

2010-01-05T11:05:00.000-08:00

We’ve all heard the statistics: approximately 50% of first marriages end in divorce. But just because it is commonplace does not make it any less painful or disruptive. Concerned parents often wonder what they can do to help their children manage this life change. At 6:30 pm on Thursday, February 25th, Youth Connect will present “Living With Divorce,” a talk and discussion led by Donna Bednarek, Ph.D.

Dr. Bednarek, a certified school psychologist and licensed therapist, is acting director of the Psychology Department at Laughlin Children’s Center, where she works with children and families on issues surrounding adjustment and learning.

The purpose of this talk on divorce is to help parents understand the questions and concerns that divorce typically evokes in children of different ages; provide practical suggestions regarding how parents can effectively respond to help their children cope; and assist in gaining a perspective on what a successful adjustment to divorce requires of parents.

Drawing on her years of experience as a therapist and evaluator, Dr. Bednarek will present real-life suggestions for families struggling to adapt to the new reality of divorce, as well as help those families already impacted by divorce to function in more healthy ways. The talk is free and open to the public, and takes place at Laughlin Children’s Center, 424 Frederick Avenue, Sewickley.

Youth Connect is a group of concerned adults and students from schools and organizations in the Sewickley area working to provide the information, resources, and support our young people need to avoid risky behaviors and enjoy their teen years.

The evening program is open to all community members. For more information on Youth Connect and the upcoming presentation “Living With Divorce”, email youthconnect@hotmail.com.

Local School District partners with The Alliance

2009-12-16T10:09:00.000-08:00

QVSD Supports Prevention Video

QVSD is participating in a "Prevention Video of the Month" program in partnership with the Alliance Against Drugs and the Office of the Pennsylvania Attorney General. Username and passwords are required to access the videos. A high-speed Internet connection is also required.

The first video in the series is a drug prevention video that is approximately 18 minutes in length and is appropriate for viewers from grade 5 to adult. Talking points to discuss with your child are available to download from the Alliance web site.

The Alliance also has a moderated discussion BLOG to submit your comments to the Alliance.

Please visit the Alliance web site and follow the "Multimedia" menu to the "Prevention Video of the Month" page.

Social Networking: Know More, Fear Less!

2009-11-02T12:23:00.000-08:00

What technologies are students using today?
What is coming and how will these technologies fit into their lives?
What is the research telling us about the effects of these technologies on interpersonal relationships, problem solving, decision making, and higher order thinking?
How prevalent is misuse of these technologies with regard to interpersonal relationships, bullying, etc.?
How young is too young for children to be online and how much is too much?
How can parents monitor online usage?

FIND OUT!

On Saturday, 14 November 2009, Youth Connect will host a summit meeting for local families dealing with the impacts of social networking. The event, titled "Youth and Technology, Trends and Challenges: The New Social Norm," is free and open to the public, and will feature Cole W. Camplese, a nationally-recognized expert on the effects that technology has on education. Due to the high level of interest this event is expected to generate, Youth Connect is asking interested parents and students to please register by sending an email to youthconnect@hotmail.com no later than Thursday, 12 November.

Parents and students grades 6-12 are invited to attend this exciting event being co-hosted by Youth Connect partners Quaker Valley School District and Sewickley Academy from 9 am to noon in the Rea Auditorium on Sewickley Academy’s campus. Adult and student attendees will learn about the trends in adolescent technology use and how young people can maintain safe use of online technologies through a keynote address, age-appropriate break-out sessions, and a Pair and Share summit evaluation.

Parents will learn about social networking from expert users--local high school students--in a break-out session entitled, Social Networking 101 for Parents, while students will learn important ways to reduce risks in their break-out session, iKeep Safe – Staying Safe on the Net for secondary students.

Cole W. Camplese is the Director of Education and Technology Services at The Pennsylvania State University. As Director, it is his responsibility to oversee university-wide initiatives with a focus on impacting teaching and learning with technology. His primary area of focus is the integration of technologies into learning spaces. Mr. Camplese teaches courses in the College of Education with a focus on the integration and implementation of disruptive technologies into teaching and learning. He is an Apple Distinguished Educator, selected for his innovative uses of technology in and out of the classroom. As an established consultant, Mr. Camplese helps organizations integrate technologies into their business practices, education and training programs, and their internal and external communication processes. He is a published author and has presented both theoretical and practical concepts at regional and national conferences.

Updates from The Alliance!

2009-10-01T08:19:00.000-07:00

GENERAL MEETING: "Getting Back to Basics: Listen", empowers us all and is the theme for our first general meeting of the year. Please join us as we kick off this school year at this very special Alliance general meeting scheduled October 30th at the Four Points by Sheraton Pittsburgh North. A light lunch will be served beginning at 11:30 AM followed by a special presentation from Pennsylvania's Attorney General Tom Corbett to announce our joint venture. We kindly request that a member from all of our schools, faith based , business and community agencies attend this important event a! nd submit their RSVP by October 16th to our Office Manager, Patti Ferraro at [ mailto:pferraro@consolidated.net ]pferraro@consolidated.net

MORE ABOUT THE "VIDEO OF THE MONTH": We strongly encourage our member schools and organizations to participate in this venture. Each month the Alliance will supply the user name and password along with an overview of the video being streamed. Schools and organizations will then have the opportunity to encourage parents to view the month's video via high speed internet. For parents who do not have internet access, each school will receive a collection of the video series for parents to view within their school district. (Copies will be made available at t! he general meeting so we strongly encourage that you or a representative attend the general meeting.) In addition, the Alliance will provide a special blog site for parents to post comments, questions or concerns that will be managed, monitored and screened by the Alliance.

FEED THE LOVE: Community Family Dinner Night, October 22, 2009

2009-09-29T06:07:00.000-07:00

Last spring, Sewickley Academy brought Dan Kindlon, Ph.D., Harvard School of Public Health, to talk with us about his latest studies, documented in his book “Too Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age”. One of the more interesting results of his “Parenting Practices at the Millennium Survey”, which was designed to identify risk factors for teenager problems, is that one of the key factors that distinguished teens who didn’t have problems is that their families frequently ate dinner together.

Very simple. But very difficult, sometimes, to do. So to gain awareness to this simple, yet significant, activity, Youth Connect declares October 22 as Family Dinner Night for the community. All families are encouraged to sit down together for dinner on this night, whether at home or at a restaurant; whether over a home-cooked meal or a take-out pizza. The goal is that all families in the community are sitting down together and talking about their day.

Calendar of Events for new school year announced

2009-09-10T06:17:00.000-07:00

At its first meeting of the 2009-2010 school year, Youth Connect's steering committee announced the following events, all of which are free and open to the public. For more specific information about any of the listings below, please contact youthconnect@hotmail.com.

Valerie Johnson and Mary Webber will serve as co-chairs for a discussion of Michael Thompson's book, Best of Friends, Worst of Enemies prior to the author's October 13th visit to Sewickley Academy, where he will talk on the Complex Social World of Childhood in the morning, followed by Surviving the College Admissions Process in the evening. Details on the date and location of the book discussion will be posted here as they develop.

October 22nd is the date of Sewickley's first-ever Community "Family Dinner", an idea that Susan Kaminski is sharing with families throughout the Quaker Valley communities. "It's a night to set aside all other obligations, and put our families first. It will be a chance for parents and children to reconnect with each other over the dinner table--either their own, or at a restaurant, or other dining option. The important thing is the conversation and connecting, not the location, or even the menu!" Details of the Community Family Dinner will be forthcoming, but mark your calendars today for Thursday, October 22nd.

Dr. Christy Clapper is organizing another Youth Summit, to take place on Saturday, 14 November 2009 at Sewickley Academy The theme, Know More, Fear Less, speaks to the unease that many parents feel when confronted with the emerging technology around social networking. Cole Camplese, from Penn State University, will share his expert knowledge in a keynote address, which will be followed by age-appropriate break-out sessions that will include demonstrations of popular programs and websites, discussions on online games and gaming addiction, and a debriefing roundtable at the close of the event. The summit runs from 9 am until noon; further details to follow.

Looking into 2010, Jessie Barnes and Susan Kaminski will co-host an event investigating the causes of Teen Stress, and strategies for dealing with it, on Thursday, 21 January; Donna Bednarek, PhD, director of the Psychology Department at Laughlin Center, will present on Living with Divorce--a look at how families can function in a healthy manner--on Thursday, 25 February at Laughlin Center; QVSD's Caroline Johns will lead an event on Healthy Boundaries, at a daytime event on Wednesday, March 17th; and local father, Mark Gensheimer, will continue an important discussion in April on Underage Drinking that was begun last spring. More specifics will be announced as they develop.

QVSD students to man Youth Connect booth

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STOP BY THE YOUTH CONNECT BOOTH AT THIS YEAR'S HARVEST FESTIVAL, Saturday, 12 September from 10 am till 5 pm. Students from Quaker Valley High School's QV Voice, along with their faculty advisor, Amy Keller, will be on hand to answer questions about Youth Connect, the 40 Developmental Assets, how to avoid risky behaviors, and QV Voice itself.

Anyone interested in volunteering time at the Youth Connect booth is asked to email Ms. Keller: kellera@qvsd.org.

Longtime Youth Connect goal realized!

2009-09-08T08:18:00.000-07:00

Through the generous support of local and regional partners, Youth Connect is proud to announce that Floyd Faulkner has been hired as Quaker Valley's first Youth Worker. Mr. Faulkner will work with students from the 11 communities that make up the Quaker Valley School District, and is being housed at Laughlin Center. Along with support from the school district, other organizations providing funding include Child Health Association of Sewickley, The Presbyterian Church, Sewickley and The Grable Foundation (http://www.grablefdn.org/).

More details about Faulkner's background and new responsibilities can be found in the two articles below. Those interested in speaking with Mr. Faulkner can reach him at 412-779-8110 or faulknerf@qvsd.org.

Quaker Valley School District photo
Floyd Faulkner: "I will immediately begin to build a rapport with [the students] and hope to establish relationships very early on."

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Post-Gazette covers new Youth Worker hire

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Quaker Valley schools employee will have Laughlin Center office
Thursday, August 27, 2009
By Kathleen Ganster, Post-Gazette

Floyd Faulkner has always liked children -- he has four of his own -- and he thinks his appreciation of the needs of young people will stand him in good stead in his new role as community youth worker for Quaker Valley School District. "I feel it is my mission to help young children, through my own life experiences and education," he said.

In his new role, Mr. Faulkner will help youngsters find productive outlets for their time during the hours that they seem to need one the most -- after school and in the early evening.

Although he will be working for the district, Mr. Faulkner's office will be located in the Laughlin Center in Sewickley at the corner of Frederick Avenue and Broad Street.

The position is funded through grant money provided by the Child Health Association of Sewickley, The Presbyterian Church Sewickley and the Grable Foundation, according to Martha Smith, communications manager for the district. Mr. Faulkner will be paid $38,000 per year.

Ms. Smith said the district has approximately 2,025 students, with the middle school, grades 6 through 8, having just under 500 students.

Mr. Faulkner will identify youth who would benefit from using community resources and will put the teens in contact with those organizations. Ms. Smith said,

"There are already so many wonderful resources out there and we didn't want to reinvent the wheel. Having someone to help the students take advantage of these resources benefits everyone, most especially the students," she added.

Mr. Faulkner will also work as a parental resource and develop services and programs as needed.

"We see this position evolving as we go," said Ms. Smith.

Mr. Faulkner, who was formerly a social worker, and also worked for Northside Urban Pathways Charter School as the director of student services. "My primary focus was to oversee the discipline services and act as a liaison with services provided by outside agencies," he said.

He'll rely on that experience in his new role. "I will serve as a person for the students to connect to and help them find services in the community. The key word here is 'connector' -- I will help them connect to the assets in the community," said Mr. Faulkner.

The community resources that Mr. Faulkner refers to include an after-school program at the Quaker Valley Middle School and programming and services at Sweetwater Center for the Arts, The Sewickley Public Library, The Sewickley YMCA, The Presbyterian Church Sewickley, and Sewickley Community Center.

"By having this central location, I can be a very visible presence in the community," he said. In addition to students seeking out Mr. Faulkner, he expects referrals from families, teachers and district staff and others in the community.

"I will immediately begin to build a rapport with [the students] and hope to establish relationships very early on. It is our goal to cut down on risky behavior," he explained, "By using our wealth of resources in this community, we can do that."

Mr. Faulkner will spend time in the schools to meet students and staff and meet parents at open houses and other school-sponsored events. As Mr. Faulkner gears up for his new position and the start of the school year, he is enthusiastic.

"No community is a community not at risk. This is a win-win situation -- it shows that kids are really valued here," he said. "Our children will know there are people in their corner and we are there for them."

Freelance writer Kathleen Ganster can be reached in care of suburbanliving@post-gazette.com.

First published on August 27, 2009 at 7:07 am

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Floyd Faulkner appears in Sewickley Herald article

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New position created to connect area children with right activities
by Joanne Braun, Sewickley Herald Staff Writer
August 20, 2009

Area youth organizations are taking steps to make Quaker Valley children feel more valued.

One of those steps is hiring Floyd Faulkner as new community youth coordinator, said Susan Kaminski, Youth Connect chairman.

Kaminski introduced Faulkner to Sewickley Valley Chamber of Commerce members last week at their monthly meeting.

She said Sewickley has many area programs for the youth, but the challenge is connecting the right child with the right activity.

That's where Faulkner comes in.

The Coraopolis native said he has a lot of experience he can apply to his new position, but, "first it comes from the heart.

"If we can build relationships with the youth, then we have the opportunity to impact their lives. That's what I want to do. I want to reach children who feel lost and don't have a sense of belonging.

"We need to find out what their interests and needs are and instruct them to the vast resources we have in the community," he said.

Kaminski said data from a survey provided by The Search Institute on 40 developmental assets showed in 2003 and 2007, only about 25 percent of participating Quaker Valley students believe adults value them.

The Search Institute is an independent nonprofit organization that has developed an "assets" approach to reducing risky behaviors, and has created tools to measure and resources to help educate and develop.

Quaker Valley administrators decided to do the survey in 2003 when they first learned of the tool. A follow up was done in 2007 with 650 students in grades 6 through 12.

"The follow-up was done because from the first time around, it was clear information gained from the survey was valuable and timing-wise, the kids on the younger end of the first survey were about to graduate," Kaminski said.

The survey asks students questions relating to 40 developmental assets including participating in a sport, having someone helping with homework and believing adults in the community value them. They are asked questions such as do they spend more than two hours a day alone at home and have they gotten drunk once or more in the last two weeks.

Of all the categories, Quaker Valley scored the lowest in the do you feel valued by adults question.

The idea for the youth coordinator position grew out of results of the survey and other issues targeted by Youth Connect's steering committee--representatives from Quaker Valley School District, Sewickley Academy, The Laughlin Center, Sewickley Public Library, The Presbyterian Church, Sewickley, Sewickley Valley YMCA, Sweetwater Center for the Art, Sewickley Community Center, Child Health Association of Sewickley and other community representatives.

"The groups have had some success in adding after-school programming of various types.

"But the reality is that the needs of the kids in the community vary greatly," Kaminski said.

"The issue isn't so much that we don't have opportunities and resources for our kids, it is that they (and/or their parents) don't know how to access them," she said.

Youth Connect worked to get the majority of the funding put together. Faulkner's $38,000 salary plus benefits for the one-year pilot program is being funded through the support of Child Health Association of Sewickley, The Presbyterian Church, Sewickley and The Grable Foundation.

School district administrators managed the hiring process and are overseeing the program.

There were 53 applicants for the position, and the interviews started at the end of March. Faulkner, hired as a school district employee, was interviewed four times before landing the job.

"Floyd is a perfect fit for this position," Kaminski said.

"Not only is his depth and breadth of experience well-suited for the job, his respect for and understanding of youth gives him the ability to connect with them. And this will be the most important aspect of his role."

Faulkner said he has felt welcomed by those he has met so far including police Chief John Ershner and borough Manager Kevin Flannery who pledged their help and support.

"We've been excited by the enthusiasm that everyone has shown for the position and the many ideas and offers of help that have come out of the initial meetings." Kaminski said.

"I am so excited about the possibilities that he is bringing to the community."

Faulkner's office is set up at the Laughlin Center because Kaminski said is it open late, and Faulkner will be working in the evenings.

Those who have questions or who need to contact Faulkner can call the center at 412-741-4087.

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Meet Floyd Faulkner
Wherever the kids are, that's where Floyd Faulkner plans to be.

The new community youth worker wants to let Sewickley area children know he is there for them. He wants to find out their interests and get them involved in the right activities for them.

"I need to be visible in the community. They will know me as Mr. Floyd. Each day with a child is a teachable moment. We need to capture that time and build their self-confidence and academic achievements. We need to bridge the gap between adults and children," he said.

He plans to observe children in different environments by getting to know those who congregate at Sewickley Public Library and visiting children at the White House at The Presbyterian Church, Sewickley. He plans to work with Sewickley Community Center and has set up a program with Sewickley YMCA to bring kids in to try out the facility.

He also will attend evening community and athletic events.

In addition, he will meet with agency representatives to coordinate schedules to avoid overlaps and to add new programs such as youth groups.

Faulkner worked for eight years as director of student services at Northside Urban Pathways Charter School in Pittsburgh.

He was a Pee Wee football coach in Coraopolis for two years and a collegiate football player for Edinboro University, where he received a degree in criminal justice.

The Cornell High School graduate once dreamed of becoming an FBI agent, but ended up leaning more toward social work, moving from a management position at Hertz Corporation to a case worker job with Neighborhood Centers Association on the Northside.

He and his wife, Stephanie, have four children, ages 17, 8, 6 and 2.

His goal is to help kids become lifelong learners and to have a positive view of their future.

Faulkner said he believes area businesses and organizations have their eyes out for youth, but "we need to put our heads and resources together."

And, that, he said, will happen one child at a time.

Community Contributors Recognized

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At its May Steering Committee Meeting, Youth Connect members signed letters of recognition, thanking four individuals (and their organizations) for outstanding service to the youth of our community. Among those recognized:

Mark Gensheimer, for his work in getting fathers engaged in discussions about underage drinking;

Miriam Rader, an active leader at the Sewickley Community Center, for that agency's work with teens in afterschool programs;

Kelly Rottmund, the teen librarian at Sewickley Public Library, for the care and concern she exhibits in her work with local students;

the Reverend Dana Jones, senior pastor of The Presbyterian Church, Sewickley, and associate pastor Scott Hoffman, for the support they and the church provide to area youth through the afterschool program and the new community youth worker position.

Heart-felt thanks and congratulations to our Community Contributors!

What We've Been Up To

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The 2008-09 School Year was busy for us! We presented a series of workshops and discussions, all free and open to the public, beginning in October with "Teen Mental Health Services in the Community--Behavioral Indicators of Potential Mental Health Issues in Teenagers," presented by Brian Smithley of Staunton Clinic. At that same October event, Stacie Sebastian provided an overview of Teen Screen, a mental health screening tool used by Outreach Teen and Family Services.

In November, Sandy Cooper, a women's health nurse practitioner from Womancare Associates, led a discussion entitled: Having the Talk--What Kids Need to Hear from their Parents about Sex. Due to the overwhelming response, a follow up discussion with Ms. Cooper was held in February.

Dr. Christy Clapper, a Guidance Counselor for Quaker Valley School District, led a January workshop for parents on transitions. Dr. Clapper focused on child and brain development, and the organizational skills students need to develop for success in school.

March and April concentrated on the hot-button topic of underaged drinking. Two separate round-table discussions were chaired by local fathers, bringing a unique voice to the meetings. Mark Gensheimer, who participated in both discussions, has formed a new Dads Group to further explore ways fathers can interact positively with their own children and the youth of the community.